Monthly Archives: January 2023

Friday Poem #314: Parenting

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Parenting

Wiping bottoms
Scrapes on knees
Prompting requests to start with “please”
Bedtime stories
Fun and games
Muddy puddles in the rain.
Tantrums, meltdowns
Refusing food
Often cheeky; occasionally rude.
One simple question; always - “why?”
Learning about the earth and sky
Learning about the stars and moon
You know their favourite programme’s tune.
Cuddles anytime day or night
Bath time can be quite a fight
Please leave on the bedroom light
Hold those little hands so tight.

Then they don’t want to.
You’re no longer cool
Stronger influences online or friends at school.
Wearing makeup
Dressing their own style
One word answers
Rarely smile.
Self - isolation is the way
Glued to a device all day
Attitude and knowing everything in spades
You don’t know how things are these days.
You’re just boring, sad and old
There’s nothing from you they can be told.
It’s clothing now - too old for toys
Hard to see what brings them joy
Treating the home like an hotel
Bedroom’s a mess - and what’s that smell?!

And then they’re gone;
An empty nest
You miss the arguing, the mess.
Longing for that stupid fight
If just to see them for a night.
They do return, and things are better
They bring some washing, can you mend my sweater?
Hugs and kisses, hands held once again
Realising that you both are friends.
A new era starts, a bond renewed
And one simple fact is clearly true:
Those years flash past so very quick
And though often tumultuous and wild,
You will always be their parent,

And they will always be your child.

Friday Poem #312: Just Now

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Just Now

Pork pie, cheese,

Prawn cocktail Skips.

Leftover feasting has come to this.

Sick of turkey, bored of sprouts

As the new year comes about

Hope springs eternal

For these next 12 months

Promises we might just keep for once.

Remembering the moments from last year

The scales that balanced joy and tears

However tipped for good or bad

Times we won’t forget we had.

To linger, backward facing for too long

Is fruitless – we cannot keep nor change what has gone.

And likewise, what lies ahead remains unseen

No matter how we hope or dream.

In truth, all we have within our power

Is just now – minute by minute

Hour by hour.

This is all we can influence, all we can control

A fragment of time that we can hold.

So do your doing now – then let it go

You can’t watch the growth of what you sow.

Don’t look to the horizon, or back to the past

See where you are, and be steadfast

In the knowledge that here is where you can act

Now is how you decide to react

Or not to what happens day by day

And yes, bad times may come your way

As will good times – though it may not feel that’s true

But here and now is all that’s real for you.

Have dreams, have regrets

But release them, set them free

Don’t make them the only thing

That you can see.

Take each day – each moment as it comes.

Be present for yourself – and everyone.

Friday Poem #311: Bus Stories

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Bus Stories

The man in the suit worries that he’s on the wrong bus.

His worrying is amplified

By the hurrying outside

Of people who seem to know their destination.

For him, not knowing for certain

Is what’s hurting the most.

If he’d realised

That this was in fact the right bus

He could have spent this morning

Enjoying his toast

Rather than fret

About which bus to get.


Beside him, slumped by the window

A dreamer dreams, snoring

Rasping, log sawing

Oblivious to his neighbour’s woe.

Not thinking of which direction to go

But away with the faeries

Or in a strange land

Catching up on the slumber

That late nights demand.

Blissfully dreaming,

Against the glass

Will he wake up before his stop is passed?


Doubtful, say the looks from the children

Watching him sleep

Judging him together – three on two seats.

These are school kids

Not the cool kids, oh no

They are separated, elevated

To join, your worthiness

Must be demonstrated

They judge those who judge others

Like disapproving fathers and mothers

Ruling all from their backseat throne

All the way to school

And all the way home.


“Noisy brutes” thinks the old lady

Coat buttoned up

Stained with nicotine and gravy

Proof if it were needed that she can’t afford heating

Sat near the front in priority seating.

Going to town to spend her pension on this and that;

Tin of soup for her lunch, some salmon for her cat.

Hearing aids, glasses, and a walking stick

Coiled like a spring to exit quite quick.


But that is out of her hands.

It’s down to the man

Sat at the front driving

Not to say he’s conniving

But he might not be

In as much of a rush

He could have no hurry

No worry, no fuss.

However, that

Could be a mistake

He may feel that

He’s got lots of time to take

Until, in a moment

He discovers

That he’s got no brakes.